"The important thing is to learn a lesson every
time you lose. Life is a learning process, and you have to try to learn what's
best for you. Let me tell you, life is not fun when you're banging your head
against a brick wall all the time…" This was the phrase from John McEnroe,
a former American professional tennis player, that left me stunned as I
scrolled through a tennis story on the web.
Dealing with the ongoing problem is a total headache
and a pain in the ass. And while we gradually changed our way of life and
adjusted to this new normal, I couldn't help but feel tormented, especially with this online study. The more I deal with and acclimate to this unusual
method of schooling, the clearer things seem to me. Knowing your priorities and
mastering time management are two of the most important lessons I've learnt.
Creativity is essential when it comes to dealing with stress and investing your
time. Maintaining good health is also a MUST especially in these difficult
times. Furthermore, I've learnt that separating what is vital work from what
isn't is critical, especially while handling modules and household obligations
at the same time. Because if you don't, you'll be dragged into a tidal wave of
confusion, frustration, or, worst of all, anxiety. From here, I've learned to
be more self-sufficient and less dependent on others in some ways. I've learned
to motivate, cheer, and inspire myself solely when no one was there for me.
I've found comfort in silence and solitude. I've concluded that if you let people
or yourself to interrupt your peace, you'll sink into a deep hole and fall in
melancholy. Furthermore, I've realized that I'm absolutely tenacious and driven
enough to accomplish works and fulfill my responsibilities despite the fact
that I'm putting my health and sleep at risk every time.
As my school journey and life in general progress, I
have encountered numerous obstacles. I've experienced anxiety and stress,
especially when answering modules and working on projects. I couldn't help but
be terrified of failing, disappointing others, and being chastised and
humiliated for my mistakes. As a result, procrastination in accomplishing work
has only worsened and risen. Aside from the academic burden, my personal
issues did not save me. As a result, it became heavier and more painful as
I overthink the things that have been destroying my happiness and peace of
mind. Despite everything, I was able to gather myself together and emerge from
the shadows. I was able to deal with my challenges by praying and believing
that everything would be okay in the end. With the help of my older sister's
supervision and my mother's ongoing love and support, I learned that I wasn't
alone and that someone was there to help me in my darkest days. They were able
to make me feel happy and protected anytime I was feeling down about myself.
Journaling for self-reflection and self-evaluation has been a huge aid in
managing with the various challenges that I confront on a daily basis. Various
coping tactics, such as watching movies, TV shows, and listening to music, have
helped me when I'm anxious or depressed. Reading fiction and non-fiction books
has also served as my way of escaping the chaotic and miserable
word. Meditation was rather beneficial, particularly during my unexpected
breakdowns. Recognizing and accepting my flaws and strengths has helped me
recognize that I am an ordinary human who isn't flawless and makes mistakes.
From here, everything I've experienced, learned, and
recognized during this new chapter of my life will be brought forward in the
future. I will use my earned lessons and accomplishments, no matter how great
or small, as a weapon in my quest for success. I will use all of my flaws to
better myself and become the best version of myself. All of my failures and misfortunes
will serve as motivation for me to never make the same mistakes again in the
future. All of these things will serve as a guide for me as I face the
never-ending problems of my life with the support and guidance of those who
genuinely love me and the Lord Almighty's unconditional love. So, God, please
help me. Amen.
Sources:
1st picture - dawnmercymuhoro.wordpress.com
2nd picture - https://www.powerofpositivity.com/life-changing-peace-of-mind-quotes/?amp
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